When you’re getting a divorce, financial issues can end up being the hardest ones to untangle – and that’s when everybody plays fair.

What happens, then, when one spouse is willing to take a “scorched earth” approach to the family finances rather than share with the other? When a spouse intentionally wastes marital property, that’s called the dissipation of marital assets.

Here are 4 common ways that spouses dissipate marital assets

People can be endlessly creative about the ways they waste money and other assets. However, there are a few common scenarios that crop up over and over again:

  • Gambling: Sometimes a spouse would rather blow all their money at the poker tables than split the money in the divorce.
  • Luxury purchases: A spouse may decide that since life as they know it is ending, they may as well spend like the entire world is ending, too. Blowing all the marital money on expensive rounds of drinks and other consumable luxuries may seem like a great way to “get even” with the spouse they blame for their troubles.
  • Wanton destruction: Sometimes a spouse will purposefully destroy something rather than split it, so a victimized spouse comes home to find that prize vehicles were wrecked or valuable paintings were slashed.
  • Affairs: Sometimes the dissipation of marital assets has more to do with a spouse’s new love interest than a desire for revenge. Just the same, spending a lot of marital money on jewelry, vacations and other gifts for their new partner is another way to injure their spouse financially.

Asset dissipation has the net effect of depriving the victimized spouse of their fair share of the marital pot – unless the victimized spouse fights back. Addressing the dissipation with the court

can result in a larger share of what remains to balance things out or a judgment against your spouse that requires them to reimburse you. Experienced legal guidance can help you achieve a positive outcome to your case.

The home where you live is probably your most valuable asset, with the possible exception of retirement savings or a small business you own. You and your spouse have probably invested thousands of dollars in mortgage payments in the last year alone, to say nothing of your down payment and the improvements you have made to the property.

The investments you have made in your home may be your biggest deterrent when considering a divorce. Although the Arizona real estate market is strong, you may worry about losing your share of the equity in the home and not being able to buy a new house later.

Thankfully, that is not a realistic concern for most divorcing adults. Arizona’s community property rules help protect your interest in the home. You have a right to your share of the home equity. How do you potentially divide that equity when you divorce?

By refinancing the home

A judge can order that one of you will keep the marital home. Typically, doing so requires that you execute and record a deed. The spouse keeping the home will also need to refinance the property so that the other spouse is not on the new mortgage. They can use that refinance process to cash out equity and pay their spouse for half of what the home is worth.

By retaining other assets

Instead of directly dividing the home equity through refinancing, you may be able to request your share of equity in the form of other property. An investment account or retirement savings fund could be worth enough to offset the value of your home equity. So could a small business that you started during the marriage. You could also ask your ex to assume more marital debt to achieve the same goal.

By selling the home

Sometimes, it just doesn’t make sense to have one of the spouses keep the marital home, especially if they don’t have much equity accrued in the property yet. Either through mutual agreement or court order, you may need to sell the home and then divide the proceeds from that sale with your ex.

Any of these approaches can help ensure you receive your fair share of home equity in an upcoming Arizona divorce. Learning more about the rules for community property division will help you protect yourself as you negotiate or litigate your divorce.

In Arizona, all new divorcing parents and unmarried parents with custody disputes regarding minor children must attend an educational program focused on their children’s needs. 

These courses are designed to help parents learn the proper way to help children cope with the changes that are happening in their lives. One of the main driving factors behind these courses is the huge emotional and mental toll a divorce can on children.

Some of the ways divorce can negatively impact a child’s life are found here:

Poor academic performance

As children try to understand how the dynamics of their family are changing, they may become confused and distracted. The changes can impact their focus and academic performance. 

Reduced interest in social activities

Divorce can also impact children socially. They may have a harder time relating to children their age and have fewer social contacts (friends). Many children even feel insecure and wonder if their family is the only one that is going through this challenging time. 

Problems adapting to change

During a divorce, children will have to adapt to change frequently. This may include a new living situation, new school and more. All this can affect their sense of security and well-being. 

Emotional sensitivity

Children will begin to feel many emotions during divorce. While each child is unique, some of these emotions include anger, anxiety, confusion, loss and more. This transition period can also leave children feeling emotionally sensitive and overwhelmed. 

Helping your children through divorce

The required parenting education courses will give parents the tools needed to help guide their children through this difficult time and ensure their best interests are protected. During a divorce, there are other legal aspects you must deal with too, and knowing your legal rights and responsibilities is a must to get through this process. 

Arizona has a “Good Samaritan” law that protects people who seek emergency medical assistance for someone suffering a drug overdose from prosecution for their own drug possession and use at the time. This applies both to those who seek help for someone else and those who get help for their own overdose.

The Arizona Opioid Epidemic Act, which was enacted in Jan. 2018, was designed to help curb the rising number of overdose fatalities throughout the state. Too often, overdose victims are left to die by people who were afraid to call 911 because they are using illegal drugs themselves. Sometimes, people won’t even get medical help when they need it for fear they’ll end up in jail once they’re released from the hospital.

What is covered under the law?

While you should always seek medical help for someone experiencing an overdose, regardless of the consequences, it’s important to know what the law does and doesn’t cover. According to the law, someone who seeks medical help in good faith for a drug-related overdose “may not be charged or prosecuted for the possession or use of a controlled substance or drug paraphernalia or a preparatory offense if the evidence for the violation was gained as a result of the person’s seeking medical assistance.” The law defines “medical assistance” as “to call 911 or otherwise contact law enforcement, poison control or a hospital emergency department.”

Immunity applies only to the offenses listed in the law. For example, if the police show up at the scene with paramedics and find stolen goods or other illegal activity, they can still arrest and potentially charge someone. However, under the law, the fact that you sought medical help “may be used as a mitigating factor” in your case.

It’s important to remember that the details of these immunity laws vary by state. However, it’s never the wrong decision to seek help for someone whose life may be in danger. Leaving the scene could have far more serious criminal consequences.

If you believe that you were charged with a drug-related crime for which you should have had immunity, it’s wise to seek legal guidance. Even if the charges are warranted, the fact that an offense was discovered because you sought medical help for someone should be considered.  

Every parent has a right to be involved in their children’s lives. It’s typically beneficial to the children when both parents work together. This is why courts prefer shared custody arrangements where both parents are involved.

However, sharing parenting time and decision making are not guaranteed in custody cases. If it could put the child’s interests and welfare at risk, the court will usually award sole custody to one parent.

Are the children at risk?

Suppose your spouse was violent or was abusing drugs, spurring the divorce, and you don’t feel the children are safe with them. Alternatively, they may have been neglectful of the kids, and their parental skills are questionable.

In cases like this, you can seek sole parenting time. Children always come first, and the court will decide accordingly. In mild cases, the judge may order supervised visits to protect the child while ensuring the other parent is involved.

However, the other parent may be completely blocked from accessing the children if need be. In such a case, one of the parents will get sole decision-making authority and parenting time with the kids.

What do you need to secure sole parenting time?

Decisions on parenting time are not gender-based, and judges are not quick to jump to conclusions without evidence. Some divorcing couples falsely accuse each other due to bad blood between them in a bid to sway court decisions.

Therefore, you need to support your claims by furnishing the court with relevant information such as communication records or witness testimony. Anything that shows the court that your children will not be safe around the other parent will go a long way in convincing them.

You are likely to face resistance from your spouse if you seek sole custody. However, you should be prepared to fight for your children’s safety

Some people think they don’t need to worry about getting a DUI because they smoked marijuana instead of drinking alcohol. However, you don’t need to drink alcohol to get a DUI in Arizona.

Drugs like marijuana, prescription medications, and even over-the-counter cold medicines can lead to a DUI conviction if they make it unsafe for you to operate a vehicle.

What constitutes a DUI, and what should you do if you’re arrested?

The definition of a DUI in Arizona is operating a vehicle while impaired to the slightest degree by alcohol or drugs. The penalties for a first-offense DUI in Arizona can include a mandatory minimum sentence of 10 days in jail, a $1,250 fine, and the revocation of your driver’s license for one year.

But, Arizona also states that if this is your first DUI offense, you will only need to serve one day in jail if you agree to complete a drug and alcohol screening, education, or treatment program.

If you are arrested for a DUI in Arizona, it is essential to know what to expect and what your rights are. Exercising your right to remain silent until you have an attorney present is often wise. While you have the right to refuse to take a chemical test, doing so results in an automatic 12-month suspension of your driver’s license. Refusing a field sobriety test would not bring any penalty, however.

It can certainly be confusing. Getting legal representation is typically best to help you navigate the judicial system, understand the charges against you and evaluate the different defense options.

 

Parenting schedules and physical custody issues can make a divorce more difficult. You want to do what’s best for your children, but you also need to think about your other responsibilities.

As a busy teacher, you spend many hours a day at the local school. Your children go there, too, so you see them every day even if you don’t have physical custody on that date. It’s a best-case scenario in some ways, but in others, your job makes getting time with your kids harder.

You work late into the evenings, and then you have papers to grade and homework to go over. You’re focused on lesson plans and putting together events, so it can be hard to spend more quality time with your kids.

Does this mean that you don’t have time for custody? Can you still have custody some days?

Custody is based on your children’s best interests

Your parenting time and custody schedule will be based on your children’s best interests. For example, if they would be going to and from school with you, have help with homework, be able to have a parent with them regularly and have the support they need in the home, there is no reason why you wouldn’t have a right to seek physical custody.

At the same time, you should think about their time and if it’s reasonable to be with you each of those days. Maybe you’ll find it hard to find time to cook dinner or make means for them because you’re busy with work. Maybe the other parent has more time and would be better able to care for your children through the week even though they see you at school. This is something to think over as you work on your parenting plan.

Do what will help your child most

Everyone’s situation is different. Your career doesn’t necessarily guarantee or remove the chances of getting custody. You, the other parent and, potentially, your children, may want to sit down and talk about the custody situation to determine if one home would be better than the other at certain times.

Those arrested for driving under the influence (DUI) charges in Arizona may feel like they are in a hopeless situation. After all, there is probably a police officer willing to testify about their behavior and the chemical test showing that they were over the legal limit.

Even those who know the charges against them are wrong may feel like they have to plead guilty. What these individuals fail to realize is that quite a few drivers successfully defend against DUI charges in Arizona every year. What defense strategies may prove successful for those who want to avoid conviction?

Challenging the breath test results

If you have not had anything to drink in weeks and fail a breath test, you obviously realize that the breath test must be inaccurate. There is scientific research to help validate your claim that the test results might be inaccurate.

Challenging the traffic stop

Police officers need a valid reason to pull you over. They need to suspect you of a significant traffic infraction. If they do not believe you are under the influence, then they must give you another reason for conducting the traffic stop. A traffic stop initiated with no probable cause may not hold up under scrutiny in criminal court.

Creating a medical explanation

Some people have health issues that affect the accuracy of breath test results. Others take medications that compromise testing accuracy. When you have medical records that create a viable alternative explanation for why you may have failed a breath test or even a field sobriety test, you will have an easier time creating a reasonable doubt regarding your guilt.

Looking into common defense strategies can help you defend your driving record and your freedom when facing DUI charges.

You meant your vows when you said them on your wedding day over 20 years ago. But lately, things between you and your spouse are tense and there’s a lack of trust between the two of you that has built up over the years. As much as you hate to admit it, you find yourself thinking that it is time to move on from the marriage.

The thought of leaving an unhealthy marriage can be daunting. Couples often fall into a pattern where they are extremely comfortable with each other. Yet, if you are unhappy perhaps moving on is the best option.

Signs that it’s time to get divorced

Many long-term marriages in the United States end in divorce. Here are some of the reasons:

  • Communication has shut down between you. Even if you want to discuss what’s causing your concern for your marriage, you don’t feel like you can talk with your partner.
  • Infidelity has destroyed your trust in your partner. Even though they are repentant, you just can’t seem to move on from the pain their behavior has caused.
  • You’re tired of the emotional and physical abuse you’ve suffered throughout the marriage.
  • Financial disputes are tearing you two apart. One of you is a saver and one is a spender and you just do not see eye to eye.
  • Alcohol or drug addiction has taken over your partner’s life and they refuse to recognize the need for help.
  • Arguing seems to be non-stop between the two of you because you’re just not compatible any longer.
  • A lack of intimacy, for whatever reasons, has driven a wedge between you two.

When you realize that it is time to file for divorce, you may feel overwhelmed. The best thing that you can do is seek help to assist you with the process from beginning to end.

Divorcing as a business owner comes with additional complications. Whether it turns out to harm your business depends.

Unless you have protected your business with a prenuptial, you need to consider it when dividing assets. How a court will see things depends on several factors.

If you began the company before marrying, it would likely be considered separate property. However, you may still need to give your spouse something.

If they did not work in the company directly, this might be limited to compensation for how their contribution to the marriage freed you to grow your company.

If they played some direct role in the company, they might have a more significant claim on any amount the business’s value increased during your time together.

What if you have to give them shares?

If your spouse wants shares in your company, it could create future problems. Even if they intend to remain silent and take their regular dividends, they might change their mind in the future.

Consider what would happen if they wanted to sell their shares. Would you get the first right of refusal? Could you have control over who they could sell them to?

To run a business well takes a lot of time and requires a clear head. Divorcing can reduce your ability to have either of those, so yes, it certainly has the potential to damage your company.

Getting legal help to handle your divorce reduces the chance that it does. Armed with the correct legal information, you can explore your options fully and arrive at the best decisions for you and your company.