The use of social media can be a risky thing during divorce proceedings. This is because your posts can significantly contribute to the decisions made regarding property division, spousal support, and child custody, among other divorce-related matters.
So, should you deactivate your social media accounts until your divorce is finalized?
Here is what to know:
Can you remain positive?
Being positive can be a challenge when going through a divorce. You may not be on the same page with your soon-to-be ex-spouse concerning certain issues. And this may frustrate you to the point of saying “negative” things to and about them in person and on social media.
That’s why it’s crucial to go to therapy during divorce to learn how to manage your emotions. Accordingly, it can be possible to stay calm and positive when interacting with your spouse.
Leaving negative or untruthful comments on your spouse’s posts or posting your frustrations about the divorce on social media may depict you as bitter or uncooperative. Your spouse’s team can use this to get the upper hand in child custody decisions if you have kids or other issues.
Can you stay private?
Consider changing your privacy settings on social media during your divorce for privacy and peace of mind. Only your close friends should see what you post. You can also ask your friends not to tag you in their posts.
Despite doing this, you still need to be cautious about what you post or the activities you participate in when in social settings, with cameras all over. Your post or an incriminating photo can easily reach your spouse.
If possible, you can avoid social media altogether during divorce. But if you can’t, be careful about how you use it. Learn more about this and other aspects that can disadvantage you during your divorce.